There are numerous discussions the idea that many of us at one time or other, thought that we were the only person on the planet using enemas for pleasure.
The reason that most of us continue to a into a site like this, read the comments of others and share our most intimate feelings is that we believe that the other members of the group are very much like us. Finding others with mutual interest in enemas is very rewarding and comforting for many of us. Over time we come to realize that the other members in the group are actually nice folks, just like ourselves.
As many of us come to realize, the resulting relationships often become considerably more intimate than those with our closest friends or even spouses. Certainly at least part of the reason that the relationships with other here grow so intimate so rapidly is the anonymity; but I think it is more than that.
As the relationships that were fostered by a common interest in enemas grow, we find that we have much more in common with the people we meet here and it reinforces that reality that the other members are indeed a lot more like ourselves than other friends we may have.
I find it very interesting that many members, when faced with the thought of actually meeting physically with another member who we have determined shares many of the same values and interests that we do; act as though everyone else in the room is a potential axe murderer or sexual predator. Often those same members wouldn’t think twice about meeting a good looking guy in a public place and agreeing to go out on a date with little knowledge about common interests or values.
Some years ago, I decided that the majority of the people that I develop a friendship with in groups like these were indeed very nice people, very much like myself. Some of those friendships have developed to the point that we decided that physically might be rewarding for both parties. The results of those several meetings have been some of the most amazing experiences of my life, and I wouldn’t trade them for anything.
I’m not suggesting that any of us should approach mutual meetings with reckless abandon, but I am suggesting that there are many fine people here in this group who are a lot more like you and I that we give them credit for, and that sharing the incredible intimacy of an enema with one of them might just change our lives in a very positive way.
It’s entirely possible that some of the other people here aren’t predators and may have held more people in a loving manner than they have held axes. MY advice is to take a deep breath, consider the possibility there are people like you out there and taste all that life has to offer you. Be cautious but don’t limit life’s rewards while doing it.